Peace be upon you
I was wait your message and I'm still wait your answers about my questions.
You can go to your pastor and ask him all questions that I asked about, but I hope that you go back here and give a logical answers.:)
by the way, your friend Nada. She is not like me because she is a Shiite and I'm a Sunni Muslim. The word "Shiite " in Arabic means a group or supportive party of people. The commonly-known term is shortened from the historical "Shiite -t-Ali," or "the Party of Ali." They are also known as followers of "Ahl-al-Bayt" or "People of the Household" (of the Prophet). And you can know what is the difference between Sunni and Shiite Muslims in this site :
http://www.economist.com/blogs/economist-explains/2013/05/economist-explains-19
And If you want you can watch to many vedios in Youtube about the fact of Shiites.