o Allow the disagreeing parties to voice their feelings, and ask questions about why they feel as they do.
o Encourage members to manage their emotions and to talk rationally about what can be done to solve the problem.
o Ask people to behave in ways that demonstrate interest in what others are saying.
For example, avoid doodling, fidgeting, and interrupting while others are speaking.
Model active listening behaviors, such as asking questions that encourage speakers to expand on their points, or referring back to points made earlier and building on those ideas.