The twelfth house of sorrows, self sabotage, escapism, loneliness, spirituality, the collective, the unconscious, things that are hidden, sacrifice and bed pleasures comes into the fourth house of intimacy, our mother, nurturing, home and our habitual patterns- Your family may be the source of suffering or loss. You experience a difficulty or pain related to family or parents. You want to support those in need. You have a desire to nurture the less fortunate. You are lonely at home or it is a quiet place. You want to live peacefully. Home is an escape. You may be charged with taking care of a family member.